Everyone has feelings, even in Politics.

This week in Parliament, many noticed something unusual. During Prime Minister’s Questions, Chancellor Rachel Reeves appeared to be visibly emotional while sitting beside Prime Minister Keir Starmer.

A spokesperson for Reeves later confirmed her feelings were due to a personal matter and not connected to the government’s recent decision to drop controversial plans to cut welfare through PIP (Personal Independence Payment) changes.

They said: “It’s a personal matter, which – as you would expect – we are not going to get into. The Chancellor will be working out of Downing Street this afternoon.”

Only a day before, Reeves had met with Luke Newman, the founder of For Men To Talk, a mental health group that helps men open up about their feelings. He shared his message at 11 Downing Street and said:

“We must always make time to talk, to listen, and to support one another – no matter our position, title, or background.” – Luke Newman

Sadly, not everyone responded with the same level of empathy. During the debate, Kemi Badenoch – now Leader of the Opposition – made harsh comments, calling Reeves a “human shield” and saying she looked “miserable.”

This kind of remark misses the point. If someone is clearly upset, it’s never okay to use that as a way to score political points or humiliate them.

We all have personal struggles. Emotions are human. Whether you’re a leader or not, we need to treat each other with respect and care – especially in the public eye.

Let’s be better. Let’s lead with kindness.

If someone looks like they’re going through something – stop, listen, and show support. That’s leadership.