Building Connections in Stotfold: Launch of the ‘For Men To Talk Shed

At the latest Stotfold Town Annual Meeting, Luke Newman, CEO of For Men To Talk, introduced an exciting new initiative for the community — the ‘For Men To Talk Shed’.

During his presentation, Luke shared the personal reasons behind starting ‘For Men To Talk’, highlighting the importance of creating safe, welcoming spaces where men feel able to open up. The organisation supports men experiencing mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, and grief. It offers a relaxed environment where conversations can happen naturally, without pressure. There are no rules, no need to register, and no expectation to speak — men can share as much or as little as they like.

Since launching, ‘For Men To Talk’ has grown significantly. It now provides a wide range of sessions including physical meetups, virtual groups, walking sessions, social gatherings, and even fishing trips. These take place across towns such as Ampthill, Biggleswade, Flitwick, Sandy, St Neots, Gamlingay, Hitchin, and Stockport. There are also specialised groups like ‘For Men To Talk about Autism’, supporting autistic men and those connected to autism, and the ‘For Men To Talk Social Club’, which focuses on spending time together through activities like meals out, cinema visits, and comedy nights.

“We created ‘For Men To Talk’ to give men a space where they can feel comfortable being themselves,” said Luke Newman. “Sometimes just sitting with others who understand can make a real difference.”

The new ‘For Men To Talk Shed’, builds on this idea by offering a practical, hands-on space. It will act as a workshop where men can come together to build, repair, and create. Activities may include making furniture, crafting bird boxes, restoring bicycles, and upcycling materials into something new and valuable. It’s not just about making things — it’s about building confidence, learning skills, and working together on meaningful projects. Items created in the space may also be sold to help fund the initiative and support its long-term sustainability.

At its heart, the Shed aims to bring men together through shared purpose. It encourages connection, creativity, and conversation in a natural way. By focusing on activity, it helps reduce the stigma often linked to men’s mental health, offering a space that feels productive rather than clinical.

The benefits for those attending are wide-ranging. For retired or unemployed men, the Shed can provide a renewed sense of purpose and routine. It offers a chance to stay active, both mentally and physically, while being part of a supportive community. Social connections formed in the space can help reduce loneliness and isolation, something many men experience after leaving work or during difficult periods in life.

There is also a strong sense of value in sharing skills. Many men bring years of experience, whether in trades or practical hobbies, and the Shed allows them to pass this on to others. At the same time, younger attendees can learn new abilities that may help with employment or everyday life.

Importantly, the Shed creates an environment where conversations happen naturally. Working side by side often makes it easier to talk, without the pressure of formal settings. It’s a simple but powerful approach to supporting mental wellbeing.

For those interested in getting involved with the ‘For Men To Talk Shed’, you can visit www.formentotalk.co.uk, call 07709 446480, or email luke@formentotalk.co.uk